Well this will be an unusual post for me. I tend to avoid subjects that are difficult for me to speak about but tonight I am compelled. As I arrived at a near-beach pizza joint on the outer banks tonight, I was touched. A young family entered the pizza restaurant just about the time I received my meal. From what I could surmise, they were most likely here on the OBX for vacation. As they filed in to the place the Dad came in last guiding his special needs son’s wheelchair. I admit I was searching my mind for the proper term used for such a child. The rest of this post is difficult.

First, know that for most of my life I have avoided things that upset me. Things that would bring on feelings of sympathy, grieving, and other types of emotional responses. Well tonight I couldn’t help but notice the care this family was giving this young man. I am not going to venture a guess as to his disorder or issues, but it was obvious he needs a good bit of care. The father particularly drew my attention as he tenderly held his son’s hand for the duration of my time at the restaurant. I fought hard to bridle my emotions. After all…how pitiful would I be crying for another’s enduring love in a seemingly difficult lot in life? Could I ever bear such circumstances had I been dealt the same? Please don’t misinterpret these feelings as some misguided pity (though we all have to recognize that there must be some very difficult times for those that care for special needs family members). I have to say it is more a moment of inspiration to see a family persevere, and love each other as evidenced.

Regardless of the health or disposition of my children, I want to be sure that my love for them is observable and pure…no matter what.  A love that reflects the love that Christ has shown all of us…unconditional love. Be thankful for what God has put before you. There is nothing that is insurmountable if you are tapped into His power. I once was in a class with a marriage and family counselor that was speaking to single parents who said “God has uniquely equipped you to care for your children as a single parent”. Wow…what a concept that reinforced my beleif in the fact that God’s grace is all sufficient for those who love Him.

Thanks for reading, I wish you the best.